Everything supports you whether or not you even notice it, whether or not you think about it or understand it, whether you love it or hate it, whether you’re happy or sad, asleep or awake, motivated or unmotivated. It just supports you without asking for anything in return. — Byron Katie
There are times in my life when I get caught up in my thinking. I have this idea how my life should be. I might feel unfulfilled and try to push harder.
However what I have come to see is that there’s this wisdom behind everything that happens to me. I may have an idea how my life should be, but everything is really already perfect — Perfect for me.
Deepening my understanding of this has allowed me to relax more to the moment and enjoy life just as it is — And what I have come to see is that not only does trusting this wisdom bring out the juiciness of life, but also my dreams and hopes become fulfilled more effortless ways I could have even dreamed of.
No matter where we are in life, whether we want to find love, overcome the challenges we experience in our relationships, build a new business or completely change our lives, the wisdom behind life is here to guide us.
Everything happens for my benefit
There’s wisdom behind everything that happens — And if we don’t understand this life can feel hard sometimes.
I have felt lost when it was hard for me to find love. I have felt frustrated when I really wanted to work harder to make my business happen, but I either lacked time or energy. When I look back at those times everything has been for my benefit.
It was hard for me to find love, because I really needed first to find love within, before finding that perfect relationship. Finding love within me was the biggest treasure of all and not only allowed me to attract this wonderful person who I now share my life with, but also ensured that I could feel fulfilled in all of my relationships for now on.
Lacking time and energy in my business has forced me to look to a new direction, and understand that when I get out of my head, follow my joy and take time for myself to rest, I allow my inspiration to flow and new opportunities I could not have even imagined can begin to present themselves. I don’t really need to work that hard to make things happen, but I can allow my inspiration to carry me forward.
Learning to trust this, that there really is this wisdom behind everything that happens to me, has allowed me to relax more to the moment, enjoy my life here and now and allow my dreams and hopes to take form faster and in more creative ways I could have even hoped for.
Following the intellect vs trusting your wisdom
When you look back at time to all the wonderful things that have happened to you in the past, how many of them happened according to your plans?
When we try to work things out and achieve our dreams by using our intellect our resources are alway limited. We are going forward and trying to make things happen with the ideas we have learned in the past.
When we open ourselves up and begin to recognize that there’s this power behind life that works for our benefit, we open ourselves up to the guidance of our own wisdom, intuition, inspiration, common sense or gut feeling — However you want to call it — That really is the same thing as the wisdom behind life.
This wisdom comes in a form of a good feeling — When something just feels right. It’s in moment responsive, something that you cannot plan too much ahead of time, and it’s not limited by our past experiences, but always guides us in every moment. It doesn’t show us the whole map, but only the next logical step to take.
And only after, when we have trusted that wisdom and taken the step, another step will be revealed.
It’s not only us anymore working on achieving our dreams, but there’s a whole universe supporting us for achieving those dreams.
Allowing momentum to take the lead
Everything that happens supports me — Whether I am in the present moment to see this, or lost in my thinking and unable to see it from the noise of my thinking. When I learn to see this and get a feel of it, life becomes more enjoyable.
There’s this momentum in life that allows us to go forward and get a feel of when we are following our own inspiration — When everything flows. Paying less attention where we think that we should be and putting our focus on where the natural momentum leads us, supports us in ways that are not always visible to the eye when it comes to following our dreams.
Yet, when we do this, when we allow the natural momentum to take the lead we can relax more to the flow of life and get a feel of the supporting nature of the universe. We want to rest when it’s time to rest, take the next step when we feel inspired to and follow those small inclinations.
This way we can allow the wisdom behind life guide us — Wherever we are in life — Trust that we are always supported, and allow this wisdom to do the heavy lifting when it comes to following our desires and dreams.
Because I believe that those things that we want in life are there for a reason. Sometimes just our own ideas how to get there are on our way when achieving those dreams, when really all we need to do is listen to our own inner guidance and follow our hearts.
If you would like to learn more how this is true and allow this wisdom behind life to guide you when it comes to having the life and relationships you want to experience, I’d love to support you. You can learn more about my one-on-one coaching program here.