Sometimes you may hear people saying that having an open heart makes us more vulnerable. It’s not safe to open our hearts just to anyone. This used to be my experience as well. However at that time I didn’t really understand what an open heart meant. I hadn’t embodied the feeling the way I have …
When I reflect back in time this was one of my favourite quotes around the time I met my partner. “Love is what you are already. Love doesn’t seek anything. It’s already complete. It doesn’t want, doesn’t need, has no shoulds. It already has everything it wants, it already is everything it wants, just the …
Whenever we feel like our needs are not being met when it comes to our relationships I feel like we are looking to the wrong direction. We are looking to the wrong direction and not recognizing the source that is that love and wellbeing that we are looking for to experience. Let me explain what …
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I think that what we all want when it comes to our relationships is to both have and be a supportive partner. How can we then best be that ourselves? How can we best support the other person? What I have learned to see when it comes to my relationships is that the best way …
I remember the time in my relationship when the honeymoon phase was over. There was a moment of unfulfillment when the excitement of the new started to fade away and I found myself feeling less connected to my partner. This was part of the natural evolution of our relationship. Nothing new cannot come to our …
Living our life from our hearts. What this means for me is freedom. An incredible feeling of love and freedom. This week I heard two times from two different sources someone mentioning how in general people don’t know how good they can feel. And this resonated with me. I definitely didn’t know how good one …
What qualities do we need to experience long-lasting love? When I was younger I used to analyze my relationships a lot. Maybe needless to say I didn’t experience them as very loving at that time. In order for us to experience love, whether we are in a relationship or not, we need to let go …
Love is pure. Like pure consciousness. When you are experiencing this love you are filled with these good feelings. Feelings like compassion, understanding, kindness and goodwill. From that place of love we all do well in life. We feel connected to one another, we respect life and we are naturally willing to see the good …
I was in a hurry. I was walking down the street in a fast pace when I felt it. This spontaneous feeling of love from within. I reached my phone from my bag and wrote the words: “Love you” I pushed the send button and continued my way. There’s this study that says that couples …
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When we were coming closer to the end of the year last year I started to reflect on the things that I had learned and felt grateful for. And when reflecting what I had learned and from who I surprised myself. Despite of all the books that I had read and the courses that I …
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